Important fix: allow Patrons to Opt-out of auto-joining discord servers

Hi Patreon staff!

I have a patron who keeps having to leave my discord server cause Patreon keeps auto-joining her every month.
On the one hand I do want to give my patrons special discord roles, but I also respect that some of them don’t want to be part of the discord and shouldn’t be forced by the bot to join every month. I don’t want to inconvenience my patrons so much. I’d appreciate a fix for this!

Thank you!